Friday, 9 January 2015

#ListenUp Wk2: 15 OR MORE YEARS AND THINKING OF DIVORCE? By Ayo Daniels


Hello friends, below is the compilation of today's tweets by Ayo Daniels. You can also click this link for the storify version.

https://storify.com/kemi_odutayo/listenup-wk2-15-years-in-marriage-and-thinking-of

I pray you will be as blessed as I am when reading them.

1.Great evening loved ones, welcome to another friday of #ListenUp Wk2 ~ @ayodaniels

2.My name is Ayo Daniels and am delighted to be with you today as we rub minds...#ListenUp Wk2

3...together on a subject am passionate about. I will be willing to answer your questions today #ListenUp Wk2

4...or if you want to pass them on to our hostess @kemi_odutayo #ListenUp Wk2

5.I will answer them straight into your email boxes~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

6.@kemi_odutayo also have my permission to tweet these on my behalf in case of bad network from my end~@ayodaniels

7.I know I have with me on this platform, today married couples who have been married for years #ListenUp Wk2

8.Some have had it good despite all the challenges but...#ListenUp Wk2

9.Some others have had it tough because of what the daily experiences have thrown at them #ListenUp Wk2

10.While others are thinking of throwing in the towels because of the current ongoing issues #ListenUp Wk2

11.No matter where we stand today, the pain, disappointment, unfulfilled expectations...#ListenUp Wk2

12...hurts, bitterness, name callings, marriage is good!~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

13.Marriage is a covenant relationship, ordained by God...#ListenUp Wk2

14....guided by His commandment, established for the welfare and happiness of mankind.#ListenUp Wk2

15.Every valuable product is conceived in the mind of the manufacturer...#ListenUp Wk2

16...and it is always accompanied with a valuable manual which provides valuable insight...#ListenUp

17...into the product and help ease of maintenance and service management #ListenUp Wk2

18.The foundation of any successful marriage whether it is 1day, 10, 15 or 50years...#ListenUp Wk2

19...is the full understanding that it is a covenant relationship and never a partnership agreement #ListenUp Wk2

20.Every partnership agreement is drawn with an exit strategy #ListenUp Wk2

21.In case the contractual or partnership arrangement becomes unfavorable~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

22.Marriage is a covenant synergy relationship...#ListenUp Wk2

23...between God the author of marriage, the man and the woman~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

24.Every engine malfunction refer to the maintenance manual to resolve any issue as regards performance #ListenUp Wk2

25.So we need 2reference the manual of the author of marriage...#ListenUp Wk2

26...to be able to properly diagnose and proffer solution~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

27.In the manual you will read the following "he who finds a wife, finds a good thing...#ListenUp Wk2

28...and has obtained the favor of God" #ListenUp Wk2

29."Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be cleave to his wife #ListenUp Wk2

30.And the two shall be made one" Marriage is honourable in all and the bed undefiled" #ListenUp Wk2

31.A wise woman builds her home but a foolish one pluck it down with her own hands" #ListenUp Wk2

32.Children are heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb a reward" #ListenUp Wk2

33."And the man and the woman were naked and they were not ashamed"
#ListenUp Wk2

34.All the malfunctions in the engine of our marriages are categorised under 4 major headings #ListenUp Wk2

35.Communication, Money, Sex and Relationships (In, Middle and Out-laws) lol! #ListenUp Wk2

36.Have you given up on your marriage, or you are in process trying to patch it up? #ListenUp Wk2

37.Or at the moment, you are seriously considering it(giving up)?~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2


38.Why not take some moment today and think back on your relation when you first met your spouse? #ListenUp

39.The proposal, acceptance, introduction, engagement, wedding ceremony #ListenUp Wk2

40.The early months until you realized you were pregnant, the joy of parenting #ListenUp Wk2

41.The achievements in your careers, the good times and the bad times that you pull through together? #ListenUp Wk2

42.Ponder on all these today as if there are no current issues~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

43.The manufacturer manual always refer us to the very beginning #ListenUp Wk2

44.So take a moment today before you say, " No more!"~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

45.Remember how it was in the very beginning of your relationship #ListenUp Wk2

46.You will probably summarised yours as a relationship filled with love, trust...#ListenUp Wk2

47... openness, commitment and romance~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

48.Then for one moment look beyond the present issues and reflect on the man and...#ListenUp Wk2

49...the woman you got married to, their persons, what attracted you to them in the first place #ListenUp Wk2

50.Just like an engine need to go for a routine maintenance check for effective performance...#ListenUp Wk2

51.It has been researched that every marriage whether it's faring well or going through challenges...#ListenUp Wk2

52...need to do a yearly reality check to assess the relationship along the 4 indices highlighted earlier on #ListenUp Wk2

53. A lot of us usually think changing our spouses will resolve the rising issues in our marriages #ListenUp Wk2

54.I dare say under God that human beings are the same at all times~@ayodaniels #ListenUp

55.Marriage is a garden and you and I have the God given mandate to tender ours under God #ListenUp Wk2

56.If you realized that the issues confronting your marriage are outside the highlighted #ListenUp Wk2

57.Pls do the following: a. Seek for a marriage counsellor advice. You may need to go through a therapy session with your spouse #ListenUp Wk2

58.b.Buy books and study along the area of your present challenges #ListenUp Wk2

59.c. Learn to daily pray for your spouse which will help you deal with resentment and hurt towards them #ListenUp Wk2

60.d.Pray for God's sustaining grace through the storm, especially for your children... #ListenUp Wk2

61...because the enemy doesn't delight in the unity of a family~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

62.e.Speak well of your spouse to your kids and others as you anticipate change in your home #ListenUp Wk2

63.I pray for the release of God's grace over your home~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

64.I declare peace over your home. I decree a turn around in your marital situations~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

65.Peace to every storm! The siege is over, the devil cannot steal your peace, marital vows and family. Shalom!!!~@ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

Wow!!! Thank you so much, sir! We appreciate your time and these wisdom you shared with us on #ListenUp Wk2 @ayodaniels

May grace and more wisdom be multiplied unto you, sir! @ayodaniels #ListenUp Wk2

In case you have any questions or you want to connect with @ayodaniels, you can tweet at him. #ListenUp Wk2

Or send him a mail at ayodaniels@lighthouseng.org #ListenUp Wk2

Our homes are blessed and blissful in Jesus name! Till next week friday, same time, continue to #ListenUp



































































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